a good psychologist just hears what you say and reflects it back to you in a way that makes it make sense to you. this is a way of just putting pieces of me together in an easily compiled and reviewed format to reflect me back to myself in a way i hope might begin to make sense.

things:
+thirty-one
+texan
+genderqueer
+he/him/his pronouns
+sex-positive
+pansexual
+enthusiastic
+socially awkward
+cat person
+smells nice
+soft armpit hair
+cfs
+fibro
+social anxieties
+panic attacks
+bipolar
+always smart
+frequently stubborn
+just the way i'm wired

a site i fucking love:

18th May 2013

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bananneli:

I wish that there was a socially acceptable way to say, “I’m having a bad mental health day and need you to pay attention to me,” without alienating everyone.

say those words exactly and get anyone who feels alienated by them out of your life.

if you ask a friend for very simple help to make your mental health better, and their response is to feel alienated by your request, they aren’t your friend and will only be detrimental to your mental health.

the response to “i’m having a bad brain day and just need you to chat with me” should not ever be “you have made me feel bad/uncomfortable.”

Source: bananneli

18th May 2013

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The Polyamorous Misanthrope: Dear "Pro-Choicers" →

whataboutthemenses:

damnsoprochoice:

theprolifeposter:

You’re pretty lucky that your mum was pro-life…

ahahahahaha my mother is so damn pro-choice she’ll cuss you out for being pro-life.

okay I know I’ve said this at least a MILLION times but

  • being pro-choice does not…

i’m the youngest of three daughters. my mother was 26 with the first, 36 with me. a couple years after me, she - while married to my father and everything - experienced birth control failure and became pregnant and subsequently aborted. well, would you look at that.

Source: theprolifeposter

18th May 2013

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gowns:

some of you guys treat tumblr like it’s a textbook. that’s worrying. dudes are out here believing screencaps of tweets that have been clearly typed up in mspaint using the giddyup font

Source: gowns

18th May 2013

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nehirose:

heatherbat:

reblogging so shannon can be upset about this cat.

IT IS GENUINELY UPSETTING.  i am genuinely upset by how fucking pretty this cat is.  like.  no.  it is just upsetting.

mission accomplished.

nehirose:

heatherbat:

reblogging so shannon can be upset about this cat.

IT IS GENUINELY UPSETTING.  i am genuinely upset by how fucking pretty this cat is.  like.  no.  it is just upsetting.

mission accomplished.

Source: moya-preshovic

18th May 2013

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reblogging so shannon can be upset about this cat.

reblogging so shannon can be upset about this cat.

Source: moya-preshovic

17th May 2013

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hour 50 of a 55 hour amphetamine fueled “say goodbye to shrieking irresponsibility” tour.

ducks on the front lawn.

seriously, i really enjoy my life.

also, for the record, this is honestly one of my favorite photos ever taken of me.

hour 50 of a 55 hour amphetamine fueled “say goodbye to shrieking irresponsibility” tour.

ducks on the front lawn.

seriously, i really enjoy my life.

also, for the record, this is honestly one of my favorite photos ever taken of me.

Tagged: twdrugs

17th May 2013

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the-girl-in-the-drawing:

tyleroakley:

buzzfeed:

George Takei responds to “traditional” marriage fans. 

George Takei is flawfree.

it got better

that island one is one of the most nonsensical fucking things i have ever read. does she think that if gay marriage is legalized that the whole nation will have to split up by gender or…i…no seriously i can’t even…

no, fucking…WHAT?

WHO THE FUCK LET MOON MOON WRITE ONE OF THOSE.

Tagged: moon moon

Source: BuzzFeed

17th May 2013

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callmebliss:

Let’s hear it for Great Aunt Elaine! <3

this is one of the sweetest things i’ve seen.

callmebliss:

Let’s hear it for Great Aunt Elaine! <3

this is one of the sweetest things i’ve seen.

Source: awesomephilia.com

17th May 2013

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buzzfeedceleb:

George Takei responds to fans of traditional marriage.

takei

takei stahp

stahhhhhhhhhhp

amigah.

Source: BuzzFeed

17th May 2013

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changingmorphologies:

I don’t know what’s happening, but I like it.

seconded.

changingmorphologies:

I don’t know what’s happening, but I like it.

seconded.

Source: mikeerrico

17th May 2013

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deathmutt:

AAAHHHH

this is an ASTOUNDINGLY well done taxidermy.

DANG.

Source: meddlingwithnature.com

17th May 2013

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Team Free Will + Jurassic Park (AU) 

i honest to god have no idea how i feel about this other than it caused me to clutch shan’s arm for a solid 2-3 minutes.

Tagged: jurassic park for liz?maybe?sorry i post so much supernatural.

Source: evewillow

17th May 2013

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floserber:

Martin Schongauer, The Censer, 15th Century

floserber:

Martin Schongauer, The Censer, 15th Century

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17th May 2013

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17th May 2013

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lemondifficult:

bidenette:

Le boom.

image

march 23rd is my birthday. that was my 28th birthday.

Source: bidenette