things:
+thirty-one
+texan
+genderqueer
+he/him/his pronouns
+sex-positive
+pansexual
+enthusiastic
+socially awkward
+cat person
+smells nice
+soft armpit hair
+cfs
+fibro
+social anxieties
+panic attacks
+bipolar
+always smart
+frequently stubborn
+just the way i'm wired
a site i fucking love:
Quote reblogged from Absinthe Cocktail with 26,404 notes
Rape culture is telling girls and women to be careful about what you wear, how you wear it, how you carry yourself, where you walk, when you walk there, with whom you walk, whom you trust, what you do, where you do it, with whom you do it, what you drink, how much you drink, whether you make eye contact, if you’re alone, if you’re with a stranger, if you’re in a group, if you’re in a group of strangers, if it’s dark, if the area is unfamiliar, if you’re carrying something, how you carry it, what kind of shoes you’re wearing in case you have to run, what kind of purse you carry, what jewelry you wear, what time it is, what street it is, what environment it is, how many people you sleep with, what kind of people you sleep with, who your friends are, to whom you give your number, who’s around when the delivery guy comes, to get an apartment where you can see who’s at the door before they can see you, to check before you open the door to the delivery guy, to own a dog or a dog-sound-making machine, to get a roommate, to take self-defense, to always be alert always pay attention always watch your back always be aware of your surroundings and never let your guard down for a moment lest you be sexually assaulted and if you are and didn’t follow all the rules it’s your fault.
I might just copy and paste this so I can have this perfect answer ready when people say things like “but how does this “rape culture” actually affect women?” (via holdmecloser-tonydanza)
This. THIS. Read it. Now read it again. Now the next time you victim-blame, or rag on women for any of the above, you can kindly pull your lip over your head and swallow.
(via youwouldreblogtoanything)
Source: forums.somethingawful.com
Video reblogged from Esoterica with 489 notes
Some say hey- try being a lady,
Okay bitch i will if you promise to fucking pay me.
Lady like? Oh you mean a dyke always ready to fight
cause if you touch me i might just fucking fight,
fuck it i will.
I got too much gutter flying from my tongue
If it was 92, NWA would have appeared to be nuns
cause I’m just saying the reals of life, and obvious ones.
Pussy dudes lift weights i’m a woman i lift tons.
Try being a lady ?
Oh you mean you want me to act catty and shady,
play with me like a doll, degrade me then trade me?
Use me as your trophy so that you can parade me?
Use my pussy to only birth babies?
Be your damsel in distress so a prince can save me?
Hmmm, HOW BOUT NOT!
Cause if my tongue was a trigger you’d have just been shot.
Get real i’mma stay inappropriate till I fukking rot.
I don’t talk about love, I don’t talk about sex, I don’t talk about things that’ll put your dick on erect.
I won’t pour you some tea, I won’t bake you some cookies,
I won’t be your next Ciara singing about my goodies.
I won’t speak when I’m spoken to, how about I speak when I choose,
I don’t care if you the press, I’m gonna speak my views.
I won’t be what you want, I won’t be what you ask,
how about some of you LADIES show your real face- cause I’ve already ripped off my mask,
I won’t cooperate with you
and the ones who do- follow these rules- I do pity these fools
cuz evidently they’re stupid enough to drown themselves
in kiddie pools.
Cause I’m a knuckle popping, cock-blocking, dollar-stocking,
ear-shocking, brain-rocking, use the mic time for the tick-tocking,
boot-knocking, word-stocking, crude talking young lady,
Ima gut you up with triggerous word that’ll make you shut up,
leave you fucked up.
I’m going to take your anti feminist views and skew them into confetti,
leave you wraught by my word’s machete.
So go ahead and talk about how I need to contain my self,
should’ve insaned myself.
So you’re mad now? I’ll make you mad till you’re sick.
How about this?!
I’ll get a sex change operation so that you and half of America can officially suck my DICK.
Now wait, maybe I’ve been too much of a smart ass and gave too much lip to you,
How about this? I’m gonna put my hand on my hip for you,
is this lady like enough for you,
FUCK YOU
See none of this shit phased me,
I just want you all to think of me the next time you suggest someone to
try being a damn ladyWelp…
goddamn.
Source: trollny-stark